5 Role Play Ideas to Turn Him On, you'd never have thought of number 4!
End the year with an exciting twist. Leave out the board games this Christmas and play a far more intimate game with your partner. As the festive mood infiltrates the atmosphere discover a few new scenarios to make this holiday season unforgettable. Amidst your traditional Christmas rituals, Soft Paris urges you to treat yourself to its Play With Me collection. In between your annual festivities sneak in some time to spend with your loved one by surprising him with your mischievous alter ego.
Embracing a more experimental range of games is guaranteed to change up your routine, spice up your sex life and ultimately rekindle that spark. Scrabble, Taboo and Monopoly can wait; you and your partner deserve something more gratifying. Surprise him with a new kind of present he won’t be expecting this year; dress up as his favorite fantasy. Don’t lose the romance in the midst of the holiday chaos!
A successful role play requires careful planning. Make sure your partner is available for the evening and start the build up of anticipation a few days in advance. Sending sexy texts or emails is a great way to introduce the topic. A few sexy messages during the day will get his mind racing.
As the day approaches, think about what your role will entail, if you’re the type to get nervous on the spot then practice what you’ll say to him. Keep the conversation in the realms of fantasy, the further away you get from your original personalities the more effective the benefits of this game will be. Maintain eye contact and brief, playful body contact leading up to more intimacy.
Soft Paris describes five different role-play scenarios you can enjoy with your partner throughout the holiday season…
1. Seductive Santa
An easy way to keep the Christmas spirit alive after hours, pair Soft Paris’s Jennifer Red Babydoll with a mischievous Santa hat you’ll look confident in your new disguise. To create a build up, reveal the kind of presents that await him. Do this with through text, sending him sexy messages or alluring images that will keep him guessing. For beginners, let the Corps a Coeur romantique game guide you through the night. The 100 rolls of sexy suggestions will have you both lusting after each.
2. Scandalous Schoolgirl
An all-time favourite! Leave the door open and wait to surprise your man. Be seated on a table in Soft Paris’s Schoolgirl Costume. Move your waist to lure him towards the pleated, tartan skirt. Pair it up with over-the-knee socks to complete the naughty schoolgirl look. This role play requires an exchange of dialogue, start off with “Goodevening Mr ________, could you help me finish my homework?”.
3. Alluring Airhostess
This roleplay idea is something every man has dreamed about. The Air Hostess costume comes complete with white suspenders and a hostess cap. Men love women that are hard-to-get, so play the part of a serving airhostess seriously, teasing him until he can’t resist. If you’re unsure of what to say ask him what he wants... He’ll have plenty to say!
4. Bossy Burglar
For the adventurous couples that don’t mind making a mess, this role-play idea can be quite spontaneous. Plan it in advance and discuss the details: where will you go? when? what will be the signal that you’ve started? Will he knock on the door or will he have the key? Once you’ve decided how to get him to break into the bedroom, in his character, he can thrust you onto the bed and let the fantasy unravel. The ‘burglar’ then ties your arms and legs with the roll of latex refraining any movement on your end. His assertive nature shall have you craving for what’s next! Bring out the Douce Persuasion Paddle and lightly have him tease your skin with soft spanking. The Burglar controls this scenario… let him surprise you!
5. Christian Grey
Since we are exiling board games this season, why not set up the mood in a “board room” while enacting your very own 50 Shades of Grey. To play the Dom(inant) and Sub(missive) game, first select which of the two you are going to be. The Sub obeys the Dom’s sexual whims and surrenders to him/ her in every manner. Use the black leather Obéissantes Cuffs to hold your partner down and fiercely assert control over them. Test your partner’s threshold for pain and allow them to be overcome by these multi-sensorial sensations. Strip away your inhibitions and explore the limits of your intimacy.
Finally, remember to tease him and don’t be shy to use toys and accessories to enhance your experience together. Try to immerse yourself into your role and fully capture your alter ego persona to get the most out of it. However, whatever you decide to do always remember that it’s important for you both to feel comfortable. To discover more book a Soft Paris Party plan event and an advisor will be able to answer all your questions and give tailored advice. Are you ready for a holiday like you’ve never had before?
