Improve Your Sex Life in 5 Simple Steps - With or Without a Partner

The path to having a great sex life should start with you and your body. Discover all the ins and outs of your sensual needs in order to take your sex life to new heights of pleasure with or without your partner. Here are the top 5 simple steps to improving your sex life..

1. Find Your Own G-Spot

Though guys may want to dive right in when things get hot and heavy, we know (all too well) that the spot that turns us on is not always routed deep inside (which is where most guys will try to search for it). In fact, all you need to do is figure out is where it is first, and show him the way!! With a little self-exploration you can really improve your sex life, initially on your own and later with a partner.

2. Multitask in the Bath

Taking a bath isn't solely for the purpose of relaxing, especially for all the busy women out there, it’s the ideal time for a little ‘self pleasing’. Take the tried-and-tested removable shower head option for women looking to enhance their time in the tub or maybe consider opting for a waterproof sex toy to take your down time to the next level, here are a few of our favourites...

3. Give Your Partner a Lesson

With self-love comes the most obvious benefit - being able to keep a level of mystery by giving him hints and showing him exactly what you like done, it’ll be such a huge turn-on for him too. Sliding your hands down your panties or skirt so they only see the fabric moving up and down - he’ll only see a glimpse of what’s going on. Next, start to remove your clothes and let him watch you doing exactly what you'd do when you're alone. Try intensifying his desires using soft restraints and making him look, not touch.

4. Learn to Delay Pleasure

Delaying gratification can make for a better, stronger and more intensified orgasm. Though sometimes it can be fun to just go for gold and hit all the spots that will give you a guaranteed orgasm, taking you time to cross the finish line can introduce you to exciting new sensations. Once you get close to the edge, take a break by rubbing your thighs, breasts, nipples and other parts of your body, and you will see how it can intensify the final result. (blogpost on foreplay)

5. Finding the Right Lube

Using lube is great for reducing friction and also making movement more satisfying as everything is made smooth. Test out a few different formulas to distinguish the best one for you, and have a bottle ready to use with your partner next time, instead of having to settle for any "tingling" product they might have on hand. Now you’ve got the 5 steps to an improved sex life in front of you, take half a step back and map out the path that’ll get you ticking straight away! If you’re looking to discover more and get tailored advice from a Soft Paris Advisor, book a party plan event in the comfort of your home and invite all your friends.