National Orgasm Day: How to make your orgasm more powerful
The orgasm is a fascinating topic and men’s and women’s experiences can vary greatly. Some lucky women can climax during sex, while others only achieve orgasm during masturbation. Either way, it’s a whole lot of fun trying. Whether you’re currently in a relationship or flying solo, in celebration of National Orgasm Day 2015 on 31st July, we thought we’d give you some toe-curling tips on how to make them bigger and better than ever before.
Make your voice heard
No, we’re not talking about screaming the house down a la Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally. Great sex is all about communication, so don’t be afraid to tell your lover what you like and dislike. For example, if you get off on copious amounts of ear sucking or adore being taken from behind, let it be known! If he loves you, he’ll want to please you.
Know your erogenous zones
And look forward to more intense orgasms - for women, it’s the ears, the neck, the breasts, the small of the back and the clitoris. For men, focus on the lips, the scrotum, the penis, the nape of the neck and the perineum. Use your mouth to blow on, suck or kiss said zone, or stimulate it by using a vibrator, a tickler or a feather.
Tap into your fantasies
Ever fantasised about being taken by a burly fireman or member of the armed forces? You can bet that your partner has similar fantasies, too. So why not try some role play to raise the sexual tension and have you both fired up for a rip-roaring orgasm - uniforms are available from your Soft Paris direct selling advisor.
Dress for success
You’ll be surprised at how even wearing a different coloured wig can put you in a super-sexy, more confident frame of mind. Alternatively, invest in some sensual lingerie and slip on some killer heels and be the vamp you’ve always wanted to be - he’s sure to love it and you’ll be extra turned on, ready for an unforgettable orgasm.
The art of seduction
The secret to more powerful orgasms is to avoid the predictable - don’t fall into a routine, try to make every sex session different and share your deepest, darkest desires with one another. For more ideas, book a Soft Paris direct selling party plan event - the Maitresse theme can help you discover the secrets of seduction and reignite your relationship.
